We at Blame The Control Pad builds trust and help people recognize their own role in the dynamic of rejection. We promote self-love instead of self-hatred. Self-hatred not only fuels self-hatred, but in certain profiles, it can lead to hating others so much that they want to see people hurt or killed.

Blame The Control Pad is a blog site that talks about incels. Our content contains the fantasies, desires, and some stories on how they got out of their situation. We also feature the latest trending news about the incel community. We conduct interviews about incel related content which you can view in our videos page.